Why I choose to raise urban PDX kids
I took my daughter down to Saturday Market today for the very first time. We waited for the bus in the pouring rain, transferred to MAX, and got out under the Burnside Bridge to a world that’s much different on weekends than it is during the week.
I took my son with me to work this week, and our commute also took us through a transfer at the Skidmore Fountain MAX stop. But this view of Burnside was a much more raw view – the festival aura was gone, not to mention the hordes of people who look a lot like we do. In its place? Those who live a different existence – people who also live in our city of choice, yet are often out of our own personal radar.
I want my children to see both views of Skidmore Fountain. Living in an urban environment is all about expanding one’s world view – warts and all. This means homeless people, for example, aren’t an abstraction, but a very real part of our landscape. Dealing with this landscape becomes part of our responsibility as citizens of this city – not to mention part of my job as a parent to teach my children empathy and understanding for those who are outwardly different than they are. And it brings us innumerable riches in return.
There’s been a lot of discussion lately in the wake of the NYTimes article Vibrant Cities Find One Thing Missing: Children. BlueOregon started a great open discussion thread: Portland’s Missing Kids: Part II, and our own TK commented below about his experiences looking at a housing search through newly family-friendly eyes in Missing Children in the Pearl. And Jack Bog”s urging PDC to emphasize child-friendly housing in Going Sterile.
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