Just Off Sandy Blvd., I Encounter A Back-Street Fallen Angel
Late last night we had just left the Hollywood Theatre on Sandy. By the way if you haven’t seen “Crash” you simply must.
The X-chromosomal unit had chosen to park the van on a back street a few blocks east. As we neared the back street, she walked ahead of me in order to open the van.
Walking by myself while she waited in the van, I hear a fairly loud “hey!”
I noticed a woman who appeared to be in her mid-30s. She looked and dressed fairly smart. Not a pockmarked tweaker or tease by any means. Would have looked totally in place at Powell’s.
Not sure if her “hey” was directed to me or not, I ignored her, walked up to, and then entered the van where, by this time, X-chromosomal unit was behind the wheel and waiting for me.
Just a few seconds later, the same woman who had yelled “hey” walked up to the passenger side where she had seen me enter.
At that point I wasn’t sure if she needed directions, or what was going on.
So I lower the window just a bit, and she notices that I am not alone.
“Oh,” she says, and walks off. If she had needed directions, she would have taken comfort from the fact there was a woman there- along with me, two people who were willing to help.
But she did not ask for directions.
I couldn’t tell if she was a prostitute or not, but I couldn’t discount the possibility by any means.
Being trained in Sociology the way I am, I kept on wondering, what led this woman to this path? An abusive boyfriend? Poverty? A drug habit? Her boyfriend’s (or, for that matter, girlfriend’s) drug habit? Homelessness? Some sort of inner pathology of revenge against her father? The latter sounds Freudian and oversimplistic, but I used to know a woman who is now in jail because of repeated DUIs that map back to the fact that she resented the cold parents who adopted her but did not give her the love she needed.
But all I could think of is that if indeed, she was - and is, a prostitute, I hope she takes care of herself. Get tested, baby. Get help. Get off the streets. If faith would help you, then go on that path. And you probably don’t believe it, but there are men in this town, good men, who have overcome some of the same battles you are fighting, and are looking for another heart to heal.




